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Thanks Beth. My sympathies to you too for your Father. It's an awful disease to deal with. My grandmother was a gentle, quiet woman who never drove a car and she gradually turned violent towards other people in the nursing home and swore a lot. She kept telling us about driving around to meet up with all her lovers and various other things we know she had never done in her whole life. We credit those things to all the day time soaps she use to watch. Very sad when they start forgetting who you are!
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One of the worst aspects was that my father was a scientist -- his brain, his mind, was the centre of his being. He would have been more reconciled to becoming physically crippled. It also didn't help that at the time he first developed clear symptoms, Alzheimer's was far less well understood than it is now. We went through years of misdiagnosis and half-assed muddling.
(And, in a family where almost everyone lives and remains active and mentally sharp into their late 80's, he died at 66, ten years after diagnosis. My mother died six months later.)
The deterioration is incremental -- layers of the person you knew evaporate, and you gradually learn who they are underneath the veneers. One of the best aspects was discovering that my father's generally positive attitude towards life and people was very, very deep. The last time we were able to go hiking together, he was suffering from major vocabulary loss (aphasia), but still took delight in the world around him.
His love for my mother also went very deep; he continued to be able to recognise her long after he had forgotten who his children were.
Another good thing was that, while he was still able to make the decisions, he volunteered to participate in the advanced clinical studies of some of the medications that are now generally used to alleviate symptoms during the early years of Alzheimer's. It's kind of funny now, seeing ads for something I originally saw in a pre-marketed form. He also donated himself to Alzheimer's research after his death -- we all had blood draws as well, so they could examine near relatives.
| QUOTE (Susan) | | I remember a elderly gentleman at one of the nursing homes. He didn't remember his great-granddaughter, and she broke down in tears. |
Expectations make a big difference. The last time I saw my father, he had no idea who I was -- but I was expecting that. I was there to see him and say good-bye, and I did; I was not there for him to see me, and I went there knowing how it would be.
The time before that, I had not expected him to remember me, and he did (after a bit) -- and that was a wonderful gift, and I will always treasure it.
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My great-aunt has some form of dementia (not sure whether it's actually Alzheimer's or not). It's really sad, because I remember her younger years, and she was a real pistol! Up until maybe five or six years ago, (she's now in her early nineties) she was outrageous and funny, and you never knew what she'd say next. Then suddenly, she just started going downhill... and fast. She still seems to know who most people in the family are (at least her own children... I doubt if she recognizes me anymore), but doesn't participate in any conversations... just sits holding her daughter's dog and humming to herself most of the time.
The real irony? She was a doctor, a pediatrician, and was prominent in the field of adolescent medicine. She helped found a successful adolescent clinic in Minneapolis that's still operating to this day.

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